2 Feb 13 Just looking for friends, fun, and the meaning of life. Maybe even some love. ........ long time since I wrote that it's 2024 now, I don't update very much, well found some friends, had a lot of fun since then, and the meaning of life, who knows, try to be happy I guess. I'm happy, I gave up the man life right many years ago and went to cosmetology school became a hairstylist, I live fulltime as me, I'm semi-retired now but still luv to do hair part time and do so at least 2 days a week, I've been coming here to chat with friends way back in 2006 and have talked to some amazing people some sadly are gone now and sorely missed but am always glad to meet new ppl and keep in touch with old friends. I'm not into women sexualy but luv so many as dear friends I really only date guys but not interested in any right now too busy just being me and my happy life for now.... Bigfoot is real

I am a lot of fun, am very kinky and open to new experiences! Sext me if you feel like getting very naughty with me!!!

just a sweet transvestite! xx

The most important part about me is that after years of misunderstanding my frustrations I have identified what the core of the problem has been all along. Most of my life is mired in sadness, rejection, and turbulence simply by my inability to remotely consider that I was anything other than the ideal stereo-type male structure. I am transgender and as for step one I have discovered and admitted to myself this is a real and sobering situation. This has happened to ME! Now I allow IT! I now have learned to enjoy who I am and I have allowed this deeply guarded part of my personality hidden so deep within my soul for so many years to come to life and flourish. I have also learned that within this deeply guarded part of me was this beautiful person that is loving and caring and has gracefully taken flight like a butterfly's shadow in the early morning sun. The souls that lie in the wake of my past will only remember the angry and cruel thunder that crash through their lives leaving only contempt in their hearts. The past is painful in many ways. The future holds so much hope. I am here hoping to find friends to share with, resources for basics, and when all else fails, advice, Niky

Jen Richards' quote is so much truth! "Imagine the joys and insights and movie & book recommendations and gardening tips and relationship revelations and gossip and Oscar predictions and outfits of the day and pet pictures trans people could share if we didn’t have to spend so much energy defending our basic humanity." ""There's no heaven to go to. Because we are in it already. We are in hell, too. They coexist right beside each other. And God is the land" Elsa, 1883 "Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn. T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic. About me, I am retired, long time transgender/non binary. Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only. I love conversation, fashion, but not conversation about politics. Pam

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Titusville FL cd intterested in meeting others...As of Sept 1 2021.....I am retired!!! Wow, what a change.....I don't know where my life will take me now.....but I am excited about the future!.....and a little nervous too ....... Please have some content and a photo on your profile if you message me. I love getting out clubbing and meeting and socializing with other girls. Send me a message if you would like to meet for drinks sometime! I enjoy the company of other girls who dress. I truly value the friendship encouragement and help of the girls I've become friends with since I finally let Stephani express herself. When I began actively dressing on a regular basis about 2001 I thought I would only be in the closet. The urge to go out and meet the public eventually demanded it so I finally went out enfemme for the first time in August of 2004. I was terrified at first. It took me several times out before I began to feel comfortable. I'm not interested in living full time as a woman. I sure don't have the energy to go through the hours of preperation it would take to transform me into Stephani daily. Where this journey will take me ....I have no idea. Life just gets stranger and more interesting the longer I am around though.

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