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I figure it's time to update my profile. not really sure where to start, so much has changed since my last update. Phreida is getting out more and more these days. She has also been seeking counseling trying to find her true self. While she does have a great, supportive family there is always that question..... you all know what I am speaking of. Phreida really is not a big fan of cyber so please don't ask. Everyone, Please Be Safe! Respectfully, Phreida

53yo single TG hoping to be a formerly gender fluid M to F TG 16 months into second transition (HRT) looking for new friends to mutually support each other in this crazy time in America (especially for transgenders) to transition. I originally came out 100% in April, 2000 and have gone through many struggles related to losing both friends and family related to being honest about my identity. I am no stranger to many of life's struggles & loss and am willing to share these experiences freely in order to assist others. I have many years experience in various stages of transition living in very urban, rural, and suburban environments with people of all races and backgrounds and very much appreciate diversity, so please don't let me being a self described "euro-mutt" put you off! I have a Bachelor of Arts degree and some partially completed work toward a masters degree. I can hold a relatively intelligent conversation on many different topics I would like to think. My work history is very wide ranging in several fields, too numerous and varied to share here. Been a bit isolated having recently relocated to southern AZ from back east. Potential friends here can be from anywhere, although would be totally thrilled to find local people to meet, in person, if & when the appropriate time comes. Happen to love animals, outdoors, cycling, hiking, movies, music (especially various different genres of house music!!), girlie female fashion (total clothes & footwear whore!), makeup, hair, lashes, the beautiful Sonoran Desert & nearby mountains, amongst many other things. In the past decade, I must confess that I have become and enjoy being much more of a homebody, cooking at home and striving to become much more varied & talented in the culinary arena, within reason!! Tentatively preparing to go full-time in 2025, perhaps this coming summer or so. Been going out again fem sporadically part time as of late experimenting with all kinds of different styles which I have tons of fun and a little bit of apprehension with, at times. Exhilaration still some of the time, which can be great! Learning how to spontaneously anticipate/react to random people hopefully appropriately (sometimes inappropriately & unintentionally and occasionally even intentionally, GIGGLY!!) in countless different situations for me as a visibly out trans person, for now, is vital real world practice I feel like I definitely need in order to build confidence and am trying to get much better at. Would be great to one day again arrive at near full psychological/emotional passability and full physical passability for the very FIRST time someday which based on my first transition I see as totally realistic goals for me. Hoping to find a job with TG benefits in order to obtain much needed FFS surgery or just save up enough for it without a set time frame as of yet. Last transition I was entirely passable enough in every way except for my masculine facial appearance. Especially looking for other TG women who can relate to this extremely frustrating issue to hopefully mutually appreciate & assist each other positively emotionally cope and help get each other to where we are each in a better place over it! This is ultimately my single biggest factor holding me back from being in a much better place emotionally where I can finally get through a successful transition in order to accept myself FIRST, be accepted by others, and finally eventually start dating again as the REAL ME!! Chat about any & all transition issues, being transgender, and associated stumbling blocks are my primary area of interest & basis for chat & friendship at this point. When dating becomes a reality again, I prefer to take things slowly, in order to do & get things right for a possible eventual LTR. I am pansexual, am open to all on the gender spectrum from M to F, although I generally anticipate that my best matches lie mostly from female appearing & identifying TG women to genetically female women. My tendency at this time is identifying as a transbian/lesbian M to F. I'm 5'10", not petite, developing fem body, blue eyes, and love relatively short feminine hairstyles, dark burgundy, black, brown, & many shades of red. I am toned yet a little curvy but not overweight. Was a very fit and active person before hormones & took very good care of myself so am very happy to take that into my life as a woman. My personality is fem to quite girlie! See myself as a girlie girl, pretty tomboyish, girl nextdoor, yet uninhibited, not repressive personality. I appreciate friendships with all kinds of transpeople & CIS people, especially CIS women and perhaps an eventual mate. Right now, platonic friendships are much higher on my priority list. I am very open, honest, patient, a good listener, have a heart of gold, am very loyal in all my solid close personal relationships, and my guiding principle in terms of all interpersonal relationships is the golden rule, treating others only in the way I would want to be treated. I don't think I have ever put nearly so much in my profile here or anywhere else before, but again, it's another experiment on my part. Guess I'll see what happens? If you are a genuinely kind, honest, and forthcoming person, and anything I mentioned strikes a chord with you, feel free to say hi or DM me. My apologies for this being so verbose!! Thanks for taking the time to read & I look forward to hearing from you!! [ASTERISK]. BTW, if you are only here to troll, act predatorily or maliciously, misidentify or misrepresent yourself with intent to harm, play games, insult, hurt, try to use me or others, are a tranny chaser, looking for quick sex, or are willing to betray or twist the definition of the golden rule with me or others, and/or any combination of the afore mentioned, please stay away from me and those substantially similar to me on this supportive site which should remain a safe place for all who choose to participate here! I obviously cannot and do not pretend to speak for all who choose to connect here. Ignorance of me or trans issues in general is not wrong, unless it continues willfully despite my attempt to help clear it up with no result and/or with an eventual negative outcome listed above. Consider yourself warned. Do not mistake my openness for naivete or gullibility. I have been around the block more than a few times with so-called friends & dates who ultimately revealed themselves slowly or quickly to be toxic people. I am very empathic and can quickly sense those with ulterior motives and will not hesitate to make a quick exit before you can ever get close enough to me in my slow, steady, healthy, & gradual process in getting to know another person. So if you still want to waste my time & yours, just try me. In the past, I also never would have felt the need to include such a lengthy disclaimer as this, but in today's sometimes cruel world in which sociopathic behavior is sadly becoming more & more common, my intention to remain vigilant and safe is paramount when meeting new people, who at the beginning are by definition, strangers to me. I state this all without the intention of turning away healthy people or insulting anyone who desires healthy chat about TG issues in pursuit of helping each other! Cheers! Becky

First, Guys,, not looking for hookup,, cyber whatever,, this is about my way forward,, not you. First dressed at 10, never has left me, never. On and off over the following decades, scared away by one reason or another self imposed excuse. Today, I have an understanding supportive relationship that is allowing me to explore. I am taking baby steps, that's my comfort zone, towards an undefined destination. I have only outed myself to my partner and found a peace I can not describe. I know others have found this place,, it is just so calming and fulfilling. I just like you have a million stories, failures, fears, and successes. I find it so important to tell my story, as boring it can be, to help me, listen to others to see where and when my next step shall fall. the updates below are in reverse order (most recent on the top) It’s the end of summer 24. Started horribly, March to July was a battle with the body, in and out of the hospital close to a dozen times. Been almost two months since any issues, time to look forward again. Yes, I am in Mississippi, yes I am not in a place I feel comfortable. For peace in my relationship and consideration to family, my progression of dress has slowed or basically stopped. Spiritually I am here and I am growing. Someday the balance will be found, but I am me, it’s just the rest of this planet just needs to learn to bend to my needs It's been a very long time since i updated here, 18 months, possibly 24+. Doing the herb approach and seeing results. Filling out a good B cup now, even looks good braless under a tee. Been taking lactation herbs, it has been filling me out fairly firm, awesome float effect in a pool. My mind has under gone the most change, i am getting very comfortable with who i am, fears seem to remain only with family. Everything looks, feels, and seems different, everything. Yes, i have had comments in public, as expected, but them really dont mean anything, once did, but f them, here i am. Spouse does still question hair style, "too girlish", my nails are longer, bummer dudette, "you wearing that?!?!?", yuppers. Have a couple health issues to get to the other side, Oh, weight, figure, got so much work Do the WTF am I doing moments ever go away? Stuck in this world between two worlds, seems this is the place for me. For now Just a quick update, hair has passed my shoulders, yeahhhhhh. Wife is taking me to her dresser to see what can be done with it. We are making it a full spa day, it will be my first I have been taking DHT blocker for hair, Oops boobs are growing. Who know So the wife has taken over my hair style. Keeping it long, shoulder length, highlighted to hide the gray, trying to get the curls and frizz under control. I am just loving the attention, what could a girl ask for? During a chat with one wonderful soul, I made the statement that I can not see myself ever being 24/7, but yet I am 24/7 as me. Yes my hair is past my shoulders, styled and dyed. Brows shaped and eyes touched up daily. My nails are longer then wife's. My manner of dress and how I present has all changed, that can not be hidden.

I’m a master educated, really nice successful and good looking guy that would love to find good friends and the possible love of my life!

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Hi, I am a man who likes to wear woman's clothes. I also enjoy the outdoors, hiking and photography. I am in good condition, work hard , love dancing, smile easy and often.

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I'm 60 something transfemale